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You are a very precious young lady. You have worth and value that goes beyond sex and even marriage. Remember, your Creator has prepared a personal plan and purpose for your life that only you can fulfill. That must be your focus right now-getting your education, keeping yourself pure, having clean fun without hurting anyone, and moving towards the plan and purpose for which you were born. It's all about YOU, YOUR choices, YOUR life, not your friend's.

Physical intimacy is God's gift to one man and one woman within a committed relationship called marriage. This is His plan...no exceptions.

Prom night or any other day or night outside of a honeymoon is starkly off limits. Why? Because your Creator understands human nature and knows that sex outside of marriage will result in consequences that can hurt you physically, emotionally, mentally, socially and spiritually. Your virginity is God's special gift to your husband, not a prom date, not a boyfriend. You must wait for marriage and then give that once-in-a-lifetime gift to him. It will bond you to each other forever.

Being disciplined enough to wait for each other will make the bond incredibly strong.

As a single person He expects you to exercise self-control. Human beings are God's highest creation and have been given self-control and ability to make choices. That may seem like a hard thing and quite frankly it is if you are focused on sexual issues. Focus on making wise, healthy choices and living life to its fullest with as few bad choices as possible. Work on who you are and your gifts and talents and while you are doing this your strong hope and trust is that your future husband is doing the same in his life. This will enable you both to search and find each other someday. True love and true intimacy and the complete purpose and satisfaction of sex can only be found within the relationship of marriage.

“I Wish I’d Waited”

We have met thousands of teens and thousands of adults who wish with all their hearts that they would have waited for their wedding night to have sex for the first time. Within this same group of people are heartaches, sexually transmitted diseases, HIV / AIDs, and many children with only one parent (the other walked away). Victoria, the moment you start participating in sexual activity you put yourself in a 100% chance of contacting sexually transmitted diseases, getting pregnant, and becoming active in other terribly high risk behaviors.

Please visit our website again and again. Feel free to print the [[[ Single Lady's Pledge ]]] sheet and sign it in front of your parents and/or friends. Please let us know how you are... we are here for you.